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RE: Lobbanet Suspension - sköldpaddor - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:03 AMjRuutu Wrote:10-19-2021, 09:59 AMsköldpaddor Wrote: this is just getting embarrassing for you at this point dude. like did you sign some legal agreement with Bigots Incorporated that says you’re obligated to come in and say something nice about every bigot who gets called out in this league while making passive aggressive comments about the rest of us for doing the calling out?I was just trying to look at the bigger picture, I'm hoping we can all be friends some day.
nah i'm good I have plenty of friends who don't use slurs.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - Nokazoa - 10-19-2021
Is runescape fun?
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - unconfident69 - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:05 AMsköldpaddor Wrote:can we be friends?10-19-2021, 10:03 AMjRuutu Wrote: I was just trying to look at the bigger picture, I'm hoping we can all be friends some day.
nah i'm good I have plenty of friends who don't use slurs.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - brickwall35 - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 09:55 AMjRuutu Wrote: Let's just hope Lobbanet learns from this experience. We all make mistakes, we all have those moments. What we do afterward is what matters. For some, that learning experience might take a little longer, but at the end of the day - life is a journey of learning. We live and we learn.Ahh yes, we all have "heated gamer moments" and then double down and recruit others to be annoying and offensive when called out. Truly a rite of passage we all go through. Nah, he'll learn nothing and be a clown like a bunch of others unfortunately are.
Of course, the smart and wise can avoid hitting those potholes during their journey, but not everybody is smart and wise.
No matter how long it takes, let's hope Lobbanet can grow as so many have grown in this league.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - jRuutu - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:05 AMsköldpaddor Wrote:That is great! Hopefully Lobbanet here can be a friend like that to someone in the future.10-19-2021, 10:03 AMjRuutu Wrote: I was just trying to look at the bigger picture, I'm hoping we can all be friends some day.
nah i'm good I have plenty of friends who don't use slurs.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - caltroit_red_flames - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:07 AMNokazoa Wrote: Is runescape fun?A reasonable question considering I'd probably say no. But I'm still gonna play it for at least 4 hours today.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - jRuutu - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:09 AMbrickwall35 Wrote:10-19-2021, 09:55 AMjRuutu Wrote: Let's just hope Lobbanet learns from this experience. We all make mistakes, we all have those moments. What we do afterward is what matters. For some, that learning experience might take a little longer, but at the end of the day - life is a journey of learning. We live and we learn.Ahh yes, we all have "heated gamer moments" and then double down and recruit others to be annoying and offensive when called out. Truly a rite of passage we all go through. Nah, he'll learn nothing and be a clown like a bunch of others unfortunately are.
Of course, the smart and wise can avoid hitting those potholes during their journey, but not everybody is smart and wise.
No matter how long it takes, let's hope Lobbanet can grow as so many have grown in this league.
Could be true, but I'm hoping for the best!
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - Cuffy - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:11 AMjRuutu Wrote:im with you on this one. Hopefully he learns his lesson and he can come back and be a sensible member on the boards. If he keeps acting like an idiot he'll eventually get himself banned. But people can change and hopefully he'll understand that the homophobic slurrs arent appropriate10-19-2021, 10:09 AMbrickwall35 Wrote: Ahh yes, we all have "heated gamer moments" and then double down and recruit others to be annoying and offensive when called out. Truly a rite of passage we all go through. Nah, he'll learn nothing and be a clown like a bunch of others unfortunately are.
Could be true, but I'm hoping for the best!
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - Ragnar - 10-19-2021
Gabe called me the f word and the n word
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - Vaxlare - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:09 AMbrickwall35 Wrote:10-19-2021, 09:55 AMjRuutu Wrote: Let's just hope Lobbanet learns from this experience. We all make mistakes, we all have those moments. What we do afterward is what matters. For some, that learning experience might take a little longer, but at the end of the day - life is a journey of learning. We live and we learn.Ahh yes, we all have "heated gamer moments" and then double down and recruit others to be annoying and offensive when called out. Truly a rite of passage we all go through. Nah, he'll learn nothing and be a clown like a bunch of others unfortunately are.
Of course, the smart and wise can avoid hitting those potholes during their journey, but not everybody is smart and wise.
No matter how long it takes, let's hope Lobbanet can grow as so many have grown in this league.
^ This. It was done maliciously. That isn't someone who is going to change. I am all for a redemption story, but this isn't one of them.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - caltroit_red_flames - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:16 AMCuffy Wrote:I feel like your gap in activity can account for your lack of context on this but Jruutu's opinion here isn't some enlightened nuanced point of view. We've seen this song and dance over and over for the past 3 years any time anyone says awful shit.10-19-2021, 10:11 AMjRuutu Wrote: Could be true, but I'm hoping for the best!im with you on this one. Hopefully he learns his lesson and he can come back and be a sensible member on the boards. If he keeps acting like an idiot he'll eventually get himself banned. But people can change and hopefully he'll understand that the homophobic slurrs arent appropriate
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - PremierBromanov - 10-19-2021
KIIIILL
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - ValorX77 - 10-19-2021
Slurs and Bigotry/Ablism have no place here.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - PremierBromanov - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:09 AMjRuutu Wrote:it takes so much mental and physical energy to work with bigots it's literally not worth the effort. If you have to *learn* not to use slurs and be a malicious piece of garbage, you're not worth anyone's time or effort. And if we spent that time and effort trying to "fix" bigots, we broadcast to the people they're hurting that we'd rather spend time being nice to bigots than being nice to the hurt.10-19-2021, 10:05 AMsköldpaddor Wrote: nah i'm good I have plenty of friends who don't use slurs.That is great! Hopefully Lobbanet here can be a friend like that to someone in the future.
Be a decent person and we will welcome you. Otherwise, get out.
RE: Lobbanet Suspension - dmills3 - 10-19-2021
10-19-2021, 10:24 AMRagnar Wrote: Gabe called me the f word and the n word